How to take control of your divorce BEFORE your divorce takes control of you

Heard horror stories about divorce? 
The truth is you don't have to be destroyed by the legal system. 

Most people facing a divorce are overwhelmed, fearful, and want to protect themselves and their kids. 

Most will call an attorney as their first step, and that does seem to make sense. 

But there’s a huge problem with that.

The conventional advice is to call an attorney as the first step.  

Why?      
You don't know where to start and Googling the word Divorce leads to 541 million results. 
                        
You feel as though your world has been turned upside down and you are desperate for an expert to help.
                        
Your family and friends are telling you to hire a  bulldog attorney so you don’t get screwed. 
                        
You’ve never done this before so all you know about divorce is what you’ve heard from others and seen in the movies - and you believe it’s UGLY.
(Have you seen War of the Roses or Marriage Story?)

But that's not the end of the problem...
 
it actually gets WORSE...
 
Here's the Real Problem you're facing:

The attorney you call will have a profound impact - positive or negative - on your divorce and your future life. You won’t know if it’s negative until it’s too late. 
                        
The attorney you call may handle all divorces the same and be on auto-pilot. You just trust they know what they’re doing and this is the way a divorce is handled. 

Spending time with that attorney learning about divorce and asking questions already costs you $250-$400. You may feel obligated to hire them after that initial investment.  
And, worst of all, if you get sucked into the legal system, you will lose all control of your divorce. The cost of the divorce itself may rob your children of their college tuition. 

The attorney you hire may ratchet up conflict between you and your spouse either on purpose to generate more fees… or just as a result of how divorce is done in court: it’s a mindset of we are going to war. 

Decisions for your future are not yours. The legal system can be destructive.
Most people start out their divorce wanting to be cooperative and amicable…  and then system takes over.

But luckily for you, you can learn the information you need to 
feel confident walking into an attorney’s office BEFORE 
you ever meet with one...

Introducing...

You DO have a choice in HOW your divorce happens. 
You don’t have to get sucked into the legal system.  

* This training gives you the necessary knowledge to make the choice that’s best for you and your family.  

* You can STILL HAVE an attorney and legal representation without going to court. You just have to know what to ask for. 

* And psst... attorneys change their behavior based on the type of divorce you are getting.

* Even if you’ve already called an attorney - you can change the course of your divorce.

For Just $27...

I am offering this webinar to you at a fraction of the cost of a Divorce Options Coaching Consultation with me for this one time offer. 

Clients regularly pay $200 for me to give them this exact information and help them make a decision on their divorce choice.

(Keep scrolling for some FREE bonsues!)

IMAGINE…

Calming the fear, panic, and overwhelm. 

Gaining confidence in your next steps. 

Feeling prepared rather than terrified for a meeting with an attorney. 

Being able to make a wise decision about how to divorce - the most important decision of your divorce. 
IMAGINE…

Calming the fear, panic, and overwhelm. 

Gaining confidence in your next steps. 

Feeling prepared rather than terrified for a meeting with an attorney. 

Being able to make a wise decision about how to divorce - the most important decision of your divorce. 
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU COULD...
  • Have the knowledge you need to make the most important divorce decision for yourself?           Knowledge (from the right source) is power
  • Get an understanding about what is coming down the road for you. Unless you’ve been divorced before, you have no idea what is going to happen or how it happens. That big unknown is scary
  • ​Even if you have been divorced before, every divorce is different. Laws change, relationships are different, financial circumstances are different and you can’t just assume that it’s going to look the same as your previous divorce. And maybe you want it to look radically different
  •  Stop spendings hours Googling divorce and getting results like “Is your 401k divorce proof?” “Do-it-yourself divorce for $49 dollars.” “20 financial mistakes in divorce.” “Don’t let your spouse take your kids.” 
  •  Have a starting place for the divorce and feel more empowered whether or not you want the divorce. You may not be choosing a divorce, but you CAN CHOOSE how it happens. 
  • Have the knowledge you need to make the most important divorce decision for yourself? Knowledge (from the right source) is power. 
  • ​Get an understanding about what is coming down the road for you. Unless you’ve been divorced before, you have no idea what is going to happen or how it happens. That big unknown is scary
  • Even if you have been divorced before, every divorce is different. Laws change, relationships are different, financial circumstances are different and you can’t just assume that it’s going to look the same as your previous divorce. And maybe you want it to look radically different
  • Stop spendings hours Googling divorce and getting results like “Is your 401k divorce proof?” “Do-it-yourself divorce for $49 dollars.” “20 financial mistakes in divorce.” “Don’t let your spouse take your kids.
  • Have a starting place for the divorce and feel more empowered whether or not you want the divorce. You may not be choosing a divorce, but you CAN CHOOSE how it happens. 

THERE’S ANOTHER WAY

Get all the information you need to know in 
ONE place from a divorce expert who wants 
you to survive the divorce and 
thrive on the other side.
THERE’S ANOTHER WAY
Get all the information you need to know in 
ONE place from a divorce expert who wants 
you to survive the divorce and 
thrive on the other side.
What's Included in...
Your Divorce Options Mini-Course
  • Learn about the different legal ways you can get divorced 
  •  Easy to understand and clear language - no complicated legal jargon
  • Walk away with a clear understanding of what your options are.
Which is right for me?
  • With each divorce option you learn:
  • How it works
  • The professionals involved
  • Time and cost involved
  • How much control you have over decision-making
  • And more.

  •  Walk away with all the details that will allow you to make the right decision for you and your family.
My Divorce Strategy Worksheet
  • Identify what is important to you in your divorce.
  • ​Narrow down or choose a divorce option.
  • Generate a list of questions you have for an attorney or other divorce professional.
  • ​Walk away feeling fully prepared with everything you need to get the most out of that legal consultation.
Plus... FOUR new bonuses!
  • What the $%#@ is Happening?” - At a time when you have to be “on your game” to make huge life decisions, you are likely feeling hundreds of emotions and cannot make sense of what is going on. You can’t focus at work. You can’t sleep and are hardly eating. Normalizing what you are experiencing can help you feel understood and less alone. A feelings first-aid kit is included with strategies for handling these painful emotions (when all you want to do is not feel them) and tips to take care of yourself.
  • Divorce Prep Inventory: There are decisions you and your spouse have to make now (eg., Will we live together or separate during this time? Can we afford two places? How will the bills get paid? Is domestic violence present - what do I do?) This inventory outlines discussions, questions to be answered, and prep work to be done at the beginning - even before the legal divorce starts. 
  • Guide to Saving Money and Reducing Conflict During the Divorce – Included: list of questions to ask an attorney in the first meeting to prevent unexpected financial surprises, benefits of working with different divorce professionals who can help with the bulk of the work and keep legal fees down, organizational strategies and emotional tips.
  • ​Divorce Books & Podcast Resource Bundle - There is a ton of information out there and it is difficult to know what is helpful and what is crap. I compiled a list of quality resources: books with descriptions for the beginning stages of divorce and podcasts to tune into for more information. More knowledge = more control.

Hi, I'm Emily.  By now you're probably asking...
Who are you and why can you help me?


I am not an attorney. I am not trying to sell you on a high $$ divorce (or start you on the path to one without your knowledge) so there’s more money in my pocket.

I don’t hate attorneys. I work with them every day. My closest family and friends are attorneys. They have a necessary and vital role in divorce.
  
HOWEVER....

I am a licensed psychotherapist turned Divorce Coach and Mediator.  

I became one in 2015 to be part of the solution to the traditional go-to-war litigation model that destroys families. 


Over the last 10 years as a therapist, I have seen first-hand how divorce affects all aspects of a family’s life. I’ve done individual, family, and marriage therapy with clients ages 3+ and covered a wide range of topics and issues.

As a therapist, I had no power over helping people have a healthy divorce experience or protecting kids from their parents contentious custody battles.

As a marriage therapist, I found that when people made the difficult decision to separate, the question was what's next? They were left on their own and the advice was to call an attorney.



As a Divorce Coach, I do have power and can tackle this from the beginning. It is my mission to reduce the drama and trauma of divorce on families. 

I’ve Coached people through high-conflict divorces.  

I've coached people who wanted to consciously uncouple. 

I’ve coached parents post-divorce on how to be better co-parents and quit putting their kids in the middle.  

I work closely with attorneys and financial professionals on cases and have a comprehensive understanding of what divorce entails. I had no idea how much was involved in a divorce before getting involved with this work… trust me, it’s a lot. 

But don't just take my word for it...  Hear from previous clients and current colleagues:

"Divorce is ugly, it is painful, it is hard, it is emotionally challenging and in my case, it was something that had to be done. Emily took wha was ugly and showed me how it can be better. She took what was so incredibly painful and helped me heal. She took what was so emotionally challenging and helped me navigate the turbulent waters. Emily was a part of this process from the very beginning. She tried to help us create a better marriage. She then helped us switch gears to a better divorce. Knowing my goal to always put the children first, she heard me and helped me reach that goal every step of the way. While this process wasn’t what I envisioned for my family, I know I did the best things for our children with the expertise and guidance Emily provided. She is trustworthy, incredibly knowledgeable and available -qualities I relied heavily on throughout this process. If struggling in marriage, I highly recommend Emily. If thinking about starting the divorce process, I highly recommend Emily. If in the divorce process, I highly recommend Emily. Whatever path is taken, she will help you be proud of the process and how you handled it, with all the best intentions and long term goals in mind…..and in my mind that is the best road to healing."
- Female Divorce Client, 40s

As a divorce attorney, I have worked with Emily as a divorce coach in collaborative law cases. Her ability to help the clients focus on reaching resolutions that they can both live with have proved invaluable in the collaborative process. Emily creates an environment for the clients to exchange ideas and goals which helps both sides reach a resolution. She is also effective at keeping the process moving forward and assisting the attorneys in managing expectations. I highly recommend Emily as a divorce coach or helping couples navigate the divorce process.
Melanie Hogg, Attorney
I have worked with Emily in a collaborative divorce case where she served as the coach of the collaborative team. She was able to help the parties formulate and focus on their goals resulting in a resolution of the matter. At all times, she was caring, respectful and thoughtful while keeping all team members organized and working toward a resolution. I would highly recommend working with her on collaborative cases.
Patti Jane Lay, Attorney
I have know Emily for several years. I have been on boards that she has chaired and I have worked with Emily on collaborative divorce cases. She works well with all personality types. She is focused on client's issues and concerns. She is always well prepared. She runs meetings with efficiency, professionalism and respect for others. Whether as a collaborative divorce coach or mental health professional, I would recommend Emily and her services.
Lisa Collins werner, attorney
"Divorce is a difficult process on many fronts, particularly emotionally. In today’s environment, many feel that it needs to be an adversarial process, challenging on every point. I learned that it doesn’t have to be done that way. The team of professionals that work the Collaborative Divorce process work for both parties in a cooperative approach. In addition to representation by attorneys that are trained in the process, a financial advisor to work though the split of assets and clinical therapist add to the professional team. We were very impressed with the value the therapist (Coach) added to managing the process and working through emotions. I would (and have) strongly recommended the Collaborative Process and team that made a very tough stage of life bearable.."
- Male Divorce Client, 50s

Thanks again for all you did in the collaborative divorce process. It’s always cool for me to see someone who is awesome at what they do. You made the very difficult very bearable.
- Male Divorce Client, 50s
Thank-You both for owning this and helping us get through this!!! Emily, you gained my utmost respect! Job well done!!
- Male Divorce Client, 50s
Thank you for your help today. We both don’t hate each other and have some sense of resolve. You deserve a gold medal and then some. Thanks for your kindness and assistance.
-Female Divorce Client, 40s
Emily's compassionate, caring and critical thinking bring to the collaborative process the ability to manage client's and consultant's concerns and motivations creating a pathway critical to achieving positive results.
-Bill Morris, Certified Financial Divorce Analyst
 This is Right For You If...
You are thinking about getting a divorce or have decided to get one.

You have told your spouse you want a divorce or are going to tell them soon.

You are the spouse who does not want a divorce and are freaking out. Unfortunately, it takes two people to get married, but only one to want a divorce. Even if you don’t want it, understanding what is going to happen is extremely important. You can feel a little bit in control and empowered by having a say in how it happens

You are trying to research on your own and spending lots of time only to feel more confused and overwhelmed.

You are full of questions and what-ifs. Fear is driving the bus. Or you have your head in the sand and are pretending this isn’t happening.

You have started talking to attorneys and are looking to spend $200 on a consultation. Or maybe you’ve even hired one, paid a $4,000-$10,000 retainer and are wondering if it really should cost that much?
 Divorce without remorse isn't right for you if...

You know you want to spend $50-100k on your divorce (per side) and have a multi-year battle with your spouse. And potentially return to court in the future and spend another $50k on changing decisions.

You don’t want any help or assistance with your divorce and want to figure it out all on your own. 

You know you want your kids to be caught in the middle of a contentious custody battle.

You like living in a world of chaos, overwhelm, fear, and denial.

You want to continue to use up hours of your time researching on the internet. It’s true, none of this information I am sharing is top secret or unavailable anywhere else. It’s all out there. BUT, I have curated a package of content that is relevant to what you NEED TO KNOW NOW and shared strategies I have used with my clients for years. You may not know what you need to know. 

You could continue to wade through the ocean of information or pay to meet with a coach for an hour each week…. OR you can have it all in one package for only $27. Less than the cost of one therapy session, coaching call, or meeting with an attorney. 
I understand the risk you feel when investing in a digital product. You work hard for your money and don’t want to waste it on something that isn’t helpful. And you may be in fear about your finances right now facing this divorce.

I’m confident the information, tools, and resources I'm sharing will help you reduce fear, anxiety, and overwhelm. I know they will provide you the first steps of the divorce roadmap, save you time and money, and give you control. Why? Because these are the exact systems and tools I’ve shared in my 1:1 coaching and therapy for many years. And in every divorce case, I start with divorce options if they are coming to me at the beginning. I know the necessary place to start is here.

And those who didn't come to me at the beginning. and are entrenched in legal battles or have no idea what's happening in their divorce, regret not meeting me at the beginning.

That’s why I am offering a 14-day money back guarantee. While I can’t guarantee that your divorce will be free of any and all conflict, I can guarantee the quality of the information and the time, stress, and money they will save you. I also can’t guarantee your spouse will want the same divorce option as you. But I can guarantee you will have the language you need to discuss the options and potentially help them see a better way.

LOCK THIS PRICE IN WHILE YOU CAN

Why wait any longer? Your divorce is going to happen whether you like it or not…. 


Start by getting information from a Divorce Coach so that you can confidently begin to navigate your divorce without losing control to the legal system. 
No judge can force people to stay married… but there are strategies to delay, stall, and make a divorce take 3+ years… or more….. YUCK!

This is the resource you’ve been scouring the internet for.
Why wait any longer? Your divorce is going to happen whether you like it or not…. 

No judge can force people to stay married… but there are strategies to delay, stall, and make a divorce take 3+ years… or more….. YUCK!.

Start by getting information from a Divorce Coach so that you can confidently begin to navigate your divorce without losing control to the legal system. 

This is the resource you’ve been scouring the internet for.

Most people who end up in long-term legal battles after a divorce do so because they were sucked into the legal system and had no control over the decisions that were made for their lives. They want those decisions changed. 

They regret choosing to go to war with their spouse….

I would hate to see you regret your choice, too.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:
When do I get access to the training and bonus resources?
You will receive an email within 15 minutes after your purchase, giving you the link to access your portal with training and bonus content. 
What if I’ve already hired an attorney?
It is never too late to advocate for yourself and change course. This material will give you language and information to help you discuss your concerns and what you want instead with your attorney. PLUS the bonuses are valuable resources regardless of how you're getting divorce.
What if I’m thinking about divorce, but haven’t told my spouse. 
I get it, this is a major life decision and you don’t want to set it into motion unless you’re 100% certain. This is still a very useful training, as education is one thing you CAN focus on while in the contemplation stage. If you don’t want to purchase, you can find other resources on my Facebook Page, Instagram, and website. I am also available for clarity coaching calls to help you get off the fence - one way or the other.
What if I am further along in the divorce process and this doesn’t apply to me?
I have coaching packages to meet needs at every part of the divorce process. Learn more on emilyheird.com and book a call.
What if I need more help or can’t decide on my own which process to use?
Book a strategy coaching call with me to get questions answered about your specific situation and get clarity about what’s best for you. Book a call on my website: www.emilyheird.com
Most people wonder if they will be “okay” on the other side of a divorce. I don’t know your specific situation, but I do know divorce is a life event that forces growth and rebirth. I’ve seen so many people not only be “okay” afterwards, but actually re-invent and create an even more fulfilling life. 

You CAN take the first step….

If not for you, do it for your children…. 
If not for you, do it for your children….
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